Get The Ring: How to Find & Keep the Right One for Life.
Dov Heller - Part 2
fire, but character keeps it burning. An important principle is, and ità£¯unter-intuitive, and certainly not very politically correct in most peopleà¯°inions, but I think ità¶¥ry, very true. Itê ®ever get married because youå ©n love. Yes. Iì ²epeat that again, and listen closely. Never get married because youå ©n love. If you hear somebody say that theyå ´hinking of getting married, and you ask them why theyå §etting married, most of the time the response that theyì §ive is ç¥¬l weå ©n love. If you hear a friend say that, start screaming ã´¯p, stop, donà¤¯ it! Now why do I say this? Because for most people, when they say theyå ©n love, what they mean is theyå ©nfatuated, or theyå ©n lust, as we like to say. You need much more to make a decision to marry somebody other than being in love. Love can never be the reason for getting married, and through our presentation today I hope that youì ¨ave a much clearer understanding of what would be the more important things to look for than just being in love.
Four Character Traits to Look ForSo let me clarify what I mean by looking for character. When I mean looking for character, I mean really looking at the character, the quality of the personà£¨aracter. A lot of people say ï¨¬ you know, heà³µch a nice guy. Oh yeah, heà§¯od person. Thatà®¯t okay. You have to really look into the quality of the person and the way you do that is you have to be very focused on specific character traits. So Ià§¯ing to give you four character traits that I think are really important ones. And you really should evaluate someone on the basis of whether they have good character traits.
HumilitySo the first one I think is probably the most important, although many people may not put it as number one, is humility. Now the question to ask here is not whether theyå ¨umble, but at least make sure you donà¡ke the mistake of marrying someone who is devoid of this particular character trait. In other words, ask yourself if this person is arrogant. You certainly donà·¡nt to marry an arrogant person. So is this person humble? What does it mean to be humble? So humble people are definitely confidant people. Inner strength is the basis of humility. A humble person wants to do the é§¨t thingâ¡´her than é ´hingÔ¨ey put their values, they put principles above convenience and personal comfort. They want to do the right thing. Somebody who is humble is somebody who accepts criticism. Theyå ®ot defensive. Theyå £ommitted to personal growth, theyå £ommitted to change. Theyå ·illing to receive feedback and work on their weaknesses. Somebody who is into personal growth and not somebody who is into comfort. Humble people are slow to anger and theyå odest, and they tend not to be materialistic.
Humility is a very, very powerful character trait to possess.
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