Get The Ring: How to Find & Keep the Right One for Life.
Shimon Green - Part 10
so in love, they don’t even know that they’re miserable. We weren’t miserable at all. And that’s what it’s really about. I’m telling you the truth. It’s really true.
"I don’t care 'bout the money, Money can't buy me love."
That’s right. It doesn’t. Do you know what buys love? Love buys love. You can have it for free. It is true. The best things in life are free and money will not buy you love, but love will definitely buy you love if you’re a lover. But most people aren’t there. People watch things all day and then don’t do it. Everybody does. People are wimps. You know, forget people who go to the movies, what do they want to see? They want to see swashbuckling heroes. "Let’s go save her, lets do and go and do…" and then they go back to this stupid office. They’re just waiting for something to happen because they’re miserable all their lives. That’s what’s happening. People aren’t there. The second you get out there and do something, that’s what everybody wishes for. That’s what everybody hopes for. Take a look. Did you ever see the difference between a hero and a wimp? Heroes do things. You ever saw when the ship gets hit with a torpedo — and someone panics and says, "Oh my God, what are we going to do…" Then the real person just jumps up and takes control, "Let’s get this boat. Come on everybody. Give me that plank. Get on this plank. Etc.." And he saves the day.
Those are the greatest moments of your life when you’re doing. You get out there and you do something. That’s what it’s all about. You get up and you give all that you’ve got and you’ll be the happiest person in the world. Then you don’t need the toaster. You don’t need anything. That’s real, believe me. When you meet the couple and you see in their eyes, and I’ll tell you, don’t start a fight with those people. Don’t say anything. Don’t look sideways at them or they’ll kill you. And not the one you insulted. The other one will kill you. That’s what it’s about. And I assure you that what I’m saying is backed up by experience, and it’s backed up by statistics. Try it. If you’re married already, try it. If you’re not married, try it. You know what’s really the worst thing? I believe in soul mates. And I believe people find them. I’m going to say something you’re going to consider modern heresy. For most people, there’s a couple hundred people they can marry, within a few mile radius. Most people have got a couple hundred people they could marry within a few mile radius. That’s really the truth. We know on a deeper soul level it doesn’t work out exactly that way. But practically all you need is somebody to be nice to and you’ll have the greatest thing in the world.
To summarizeAre you ready to get married? If you’re a grown man or woman, you’re ready to get married. You’re wasting your life until you do.
What do you look for? Look for somebody you want to be nice to.
What do you do on a date? Have a really good time. See if you like hanging out with the person.
What’s a successful marriage about? About getting yourself to love a human being. About getting yourself defining what’s special about another human being and cherishing that special ness. That’s called holiness. That’s sanctity. That’s fidelity. After that just keep it up.
And I’ll tell you one more thing for a successful marriage which is really important. And this is easy to say and hard to do and is worth a million bucks. Make a date with your husband or wife every single week and don’t cancel it for any thing in the world. Make a date with your husband or wife every single week and don’t cancel it for any thing in the world. You’ll be very happy.
Thank you very much for listening to me. I hope everyone should find somebody that they can love with all their heart and soul.
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