Get The Ring: How to Find & Keep the Right One for Life.
Shimon Green - Part 7
going to make it. You could tell by the body language. We used to watch everybody and we used to give them blessings.
So when you date, what you want to do is you want to have a good time. You want to see if you like hanging around this person. You don’t have to do much. When I want to see if couples are good, I see if they can do nothing together. That’s the most important thing of all. Doing nothing. Just hanging out doing nothing. If you like doing nothing with a person, that’s a good person to marry. Because you just like being with each other if you know what I mean. You don’t need a lot of props. You don’t need a lot of things from outside. You just feel good being around each other. And I’m telling you why. You’ll always feel good about a person who’s kind to you, but you’ll feel best about a person that you’re kind to. So if you feel like being around the person, that’s what you do. Date, have a good time just doing things. What’s the difference? Go any place that you like but enjoy yourself and see if it’s good. That’s all. Check out. See what a human being he is, let him know who you are. You’ll know for better for worse. You have nothing to lose.
What do you do for a successful marriage? You make it holy. That’s what everybody knows. You sanctify it. You make a person special. What’s sanctity? What’s holiness? It’s when you separate something from a mass. Everything in the world looks the same. Americans think Chinese and Japanese look all the same, but I’ll tell you a secret — you know Japanese and Chinese? They think Americans look all the same. Because when another person is different from you, you don’t pay attention, because things aren’t holy and you can’t separate them from the mass. When you’re an expert in something, you recognize what it is. I hope I’m communicating. Pearl Buck… you know Pearl Buck? She writes when she first went to China… you know how when people from the Orient come to America, the American kids make fun. They make their eyes slanty. She went to China and all the kids were making fun of her. They were making their eyes straight. You see nothing in the world is really the same but when you don’t pay attention and when you’re dead to life, when you don’t grasp it… there’s no human being in the world that’s not precious.
This is a true story. Listen to this. A bunch of years ago I had to record a song. You know, I love music and I love to record music. And it was a ballad we were going to record. A recording studio costs a lot of money so we try to rehearse. So I went with a couple of my buddies during lunch time, we were busy. We went during lunchtime to rehearse this ballad. It was my ballad. We didn’t have a lot of time. So we got together, everybody’s there, drums, bass, guitars, amplifiers, lots of noise. About four bars into this sweet ballad, the drummer lost his mind and he started playing the craziest jazz rhythm that had nothing to do with the song. We were playing like that and he goes vroom ta ta, vroom ta ta. It was so insane it
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