Get The Ring: How to Find & Keep the Right One for Life.
Lawrence Kelemen - Part 14
By the way, besides being just a strategically smart move, this is a great way to show self-respect, because you're too precious to be dating just any guy or girl that you happen to run into. So I recommend, let somebody check the person out before you get involved, and I cannot tell you how much pain this could prevent.
Don’t DelayAnother important piece of dating advice, and this is specifically for ladies. Ladies face a unique danger if they delay dating seriously, dating for marriage, until they have established themselves academically and professionally. And the danger is as follows. While a man's earning potential increases as he gets older, and his earning potential is one of the things that is attractive to women, a woman's sexual power starts to decline… meaning her ability to attract using that sexual power starts to decline… starting at age 30, 35, something like that. And if she waits until her career is fully established or she has gotten advanced academic degrees, and it puts her up near that range, then she might end up getting edged out by younger women who the 35 year old or 40 year old men will be interested in. So therefore, a woman really has to seriously consider dating some time before she gets into her thirties. It's dangerously late at that point. And unfortunately there are a lot of women, especially in the last generation, who just never got married because the older men married much younger women who still had all that sexual power and attraction.
Be Particular - About the Important ThingsAnother important piece of dating advice… and again I'm directing this specifically toward the ladies. Don't be so insistent on less important particulars so that you miss out on what's really important. I'll give you an example of what I'm talking about. It's crazy for a lady to insist that she won't date somebody unless they plan on living in California, because it could be that the perfect guy for her, a real sweetheart, just a wonderful human being, for professional reasons has to live in D.C. I recommend to ladies that they should have a plan before they meet Mr. Right. But after they meet Mr. Right, then that plan should be negotiable. That is, that they should be willing to let go of small things like where they're going to live, in order to get a guy with great character.
I recommend this specifically to ladies because, unfortunately in our generation, it is difficult, I will admit, to find a really high quality guy. In many ways, in our generation, men have forgotten how to be men. They have forgotten how to take care of a woman, how to look out for her, how to protect her, how to show some chivalry, and because of that, women have to become more flexible. In order to get the guy who is a terrific guy, they might have to let go of some less significant details. And I recommend that strongly. I recognize that from a liberated perspective it sounds a bit odd for us to be saying that the woman should have to compromise on these things. Why doesn't the man have to compromise? Let him
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